Need replacements for #11, 16,17,18,19,20,30,39 & 50

Frustration has set in.  Now a week after I said I wouldn't change my list.  I am changing my list. Found out Margaritaville in Cinc is in the casino.  I don't want to go to the casino and the Reds game thing isn't going to happen either, so. Since I am changing one. I might as well change the others, to make it more ..... attainable. #10 was changed to make it less stressful. Changing 1 item is bad enough, now I am changing 9 items. Leave some suggestions. I will be checking out other websites for some ideas too.  Watch for more to come.

1. Be thankful and grateful and be positive every day
2. Hug my kids everyday
3. 50 random acts of kindness-
4. Volunteer-
5. Stand up paddleboarding-Well I tried, I did sit down paddleboarding...
6. Jet skiing
7. Lose 10 lbs at this point anything will do
8. Try all 30 shots on my Pinterest post, NOT AT ONCE // 
9. Learn Sign Language
10. Take a water aerobics class
11. Join postcrossing and collect postcards
12. Leave a note in a library book, or cash or gift card
13. Learn to make my grandmother's lasagna 1/24/16
14. Get a small, tasteful, possibly matching tattoo with my daughter on her 18th birthday
15. Attend a Blue Jackets Game
16. TBA
17. tba
18. tba
19. tba
20. tba 
21. Zip the Mega Cavern in Louisville, KY
22. Make a photobook with all my Grandmother's cookie, cakes and lasagna recipes
23. Restore a rocker that belonged to a great, great, great (might be an extra GREAT, not sure)grandparent
24. De-clutter and organize my home
25. Get new laptop and sweepers
26. Go to Clay Café with friends my girls-Jan 2, 2016 MOM DAY DONE 2 x
27. Go to one of those PaintNites with friends
28. Sand and paint the desk in the garage
29. Go to a real spa and have a mud bath.
30. tba
31. Donate items to Nationwide Children's Hospital from their Wish list.
32. Visit 1 of my childhood homes
33. Go out with friends at least 1 time a month.
34.  Try a meatball sub.
35. Hang up my pictures.
36. Have a campfire and cook smores.
37. Start a blog....duh should have been #1.
38. Try Broccoli - Still gross!
39. tba
40. Try new hair color
41. Laptops for both girls
42. Make homemade mac and cheese
43. Try bacon brittle
44. Try hot tea or a coffee and find one that I like. (didn't find one I like)
45. Try Red Berry Sangria
46. Go 48 hrs without tv or wifi or texting. (Thank Jeep Momma for the idea)
47. Watch The Notebook, from beginning to end. Jan 3, 2016
48. Finish a book required in high school I didn't read.
49. Throw my grandmother a 90th bday surprise party.
50. tba